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Friday, June 05, 2009 by Bethany

I think my wedding day might have been the last time someone called me Mrs. Hiitola. Except maybe the damn telemarketers. And then I became The Kiddo’s Mom. You know at those play date or kid functions and they need a way to refer to the various parents sitting around. I’ve grown used to that one, far more than my own name these days as my kid schedule has suddenly quadrupled with activity. But Mrs. Hiitola? Not so much. Mostly because it just seems so old-fashioned.

Well, seems I might have to get used to it again. At least when I get notes home from school for my son. Those teachers are all about formality. And Mrs. Hiitola I have become. My husband the Mister. And we stare at each other a bit dumbfounded with each letter about how we became the Mr. and Mrs. It seems so sudden. And makes me feel like I’ve aged a good 20 years. Granted, I have. But let’s not even go there.

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2 Comments:

we have multiple last names in our family. based on which kid or husband i'm being attached to, i become all of them

it's giving me multiple personality disorder. and none of them are my actual last name!

but this is a step up from your last post. seems you're all feeling a bit better...

By Blogger cath c, at 3:15 PM  

thing 1's friends have started calling me "Mrs. Will" and cayce's family always insists on addressing any mail to us, "To Mr. and Mrs. Cayce Will." I've always resented that. Am I a non-person that I should be identified by my husband's name?

Never mind the fact that, technically, I never changed my name, although officially I go by the hyphen.

Apparently, we don't bother to learn people's names in some families.

huh, I just found my blog post for today! ;o) Thanks, Bethany!

By Blogger Ann, at 1:01 PM  

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